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(NOTE: I read reviews here after viewing, and comments in the 'The Return does not have a full-filling end' thread, and left a couple of my own. This review builds on those, and observations made by hilaryjrp and bostonfilmfan).What life is all about, a haunting movie I won't soon forget. So riveting (with very little dialogue) I hardly noticed the subtitles. The action speaks for itself. It's highly suspenseful, and you haven't the faintest idea what's going to happen, yet also full of simple, quiet moments that bespeak volumes (AND mysteries) about the characters.The film is lyrical, poetic, almost subliminal, rather than "expository" (i.e., the payoff being in the journey, rather than the ultimate ending). Actually, lyricism and exposition are so expertly intertwined the film succeeds on BOTH levels. But be forewarned, it has disturbing events, it's no walk in the park- if you're a sensitive person that can't tolerate tragic or traumatic themes, this may not be your cup of tea. But I thought the ending was absolutely seminal to the experience- for both the characters and the VIEWER.This is the kind of movie rife with multiple possible meanings and interpretations, which invites repeat viewing. Moreover, you learn something about yourself in your reactions to what unfolds- what you pay attention to, expect, hope for... fear.***BIG SPOILERS FOLLOW AS PLOT, THEMES AND THE ENDING*** DON'T read further until you've seen the film if, like me you're the kind of person who thrives on discovery and surprise. Reading others' interpretations in advance will color your own, of course.In reviews and comments, some viewers decried the ending- some found it disturbing, others thought it, at the very least, unsatisfying. No, the film does not have a "satisfying" ending (seemingly, anyway, though perhaps there's a kind of symmetry to it), that was the POINT (art imitating life), I thought. The boys learn a terrible lesson. Wherever Dad had been, whether he was a nice guy or not, whether he intended to stick around, whether he planned to make up for lost time, whether they'd resolve issues and forge a relationship- as troubling as those dangling threads (symbolized by the mysterious contents of the box) may have been- they were infinitely better than what actually occurred. (Or WERE they??) Bring down the curtain on EVERYTHING where Dad is concerned. What a shock. Whether they had dreamed of reunion, hated his guts, been crushed by his desertion, yearned for him, whatever, there would now NEVER be a "satisfying ending", no-one would ever find out what the box contained.BUT, there was ALSO the theme of the younger boy's fear of life, of many things. He cried and told his mother at the beginning if she hadn't come he would've died. He threatens to kill himself by jumping off the tower- then, he sees death up close, for real, he's even partly responsible. Crash course in what death REALLY means. What an enigmatic film- note the pics/selfies of the brothers on the trip home (interspersed with the credits- STAY TUNED)- in some they're laughing, now seem lighter (dealt with something unspeakable, faced it with courage, were transformed by the experience? Both brothers change over the course of the film). Perhaps they're now FREE of the spectre of their father's desertion, and all the issues related thereto that have been hanging over their heads for 12 years (achieving a kind of closure). So perhaps the question is, did death represent being cheated of answers and what might have been, OR did it precipitate closure (albeit in a traumatic, kick-in-the-gut fashion)? Could BOTH be true? (Regret over what might have been and the need for closure are both integral parts of the grieving process.) One might even wonder if, all things considered, if Dad or "fate" or God didn't give the boys a gift- the ultimate sacrifice, so that they might begin life anew.In a nutshell, I think The Return is disconcerting because you think at its core it's about a relationship but it's actually about death and its ramifications. In I NEVER SANG FOR MY FATHER Gene Hackman said "Death ends a life, but it doesn't end a relationship." Or does it? Thematically and mood-wise this film reminded me a lot of a favorite film, Hayao Miyazaki's SPIRITED AWAT- at the beginning Chihiro, too, is negative, whiny and pretty much afraid of everything. While she doesn't face anything quite this bad, her parents will live or die as a result of her actions.And finally, the two brothers solidified their relationship on the trip, bonding as never before. Each became protective of the other when the father was unreasonable or harsh- at different points each threatened to kill him if he hurt the other. At the end the older boy assumed responsibility, never chiding his brother for what he had done, assuming the role of protective big brother or perhaps even "father". Contrast this with the way he treated his little brother at the beginning of the film.However one interprets the film, it appeared that both boys were honed, improved by events, and became closer (in this regard, in many ways, it reminds me of ORDINARY PEOPLE, which involves a death in the family and two people bonding at the expense of a third). LOTS to chew on in The Return! Highly affecting, and though harrowing at times, I thought it was wonderful, brilliant- a work of art.
