Steineded How sad is this?

Stevecorp Don't listen to the negative reviews

Bob This is one of the best movies I’ve seen in a very long time. You have to go and see this on the big screen.

Caryl It is a whirlwind of delight --- attractive actors, stunning couture, spectacular sets and outrageous parties. It's a feast for the eyes. But what really makes this dramedy work is the acting.

Paul J. Nemecek By the time this goes to press My Big Fat Greek Wedding will have set a box-office record for an independent film. The question that begs to be answered is why? There is no epic love story, no superhero, no psychiatrist-turned cannibal, and no guns-blazing action. So how did this low-budget independent film make its way to the top of the box-office heap? What is it that has audiences going back for more? I think it's because there is no epic love story, no superhero, no psychiatrist-turned cannibal, etc. That is, this could be about the family next door.I know, growing up in Chicago (where the movie is set), I lived next door to a Greek family, and dated a Greek-American girl who was afraid to tell her parents she was dating a non-Greek. This is the central problem in My Big Fat Greek Wedding.Nia Vardalos, the author of the play on which the movie is based, plays Toula Portokalos, a 30-year old "seating hostess" at the family restaurant. Toula is still single and this makes her a failure of sorts in the eyes of her extended family. The good news is that she falls in love and the guy loves her too. The bad news is that her new love is not Greek, and marrying a non-Greek is the only thing worse than being single.There's not much suspense in how this story ends. The title is a dead giveaway. But the real excitement and charm is in the telling. This film reminded me of two other romantic comedies, While You Were Sleeping and Return to Me. But this film manages the same humor and charm without resorting to plot devices like rescuing a man thrown on the train tracks or finding out that your new love has your dead wife's heart.Like those stories, much of the charm comes from the quirky family and friends. Michael Constantine is especially good as Toulah's father, a man who believes Windex can cure anything and all words are derived from Greek. Unlike those movies, this one has an air of plausibility. The characters seem like real people, and while the situations seem strange at points, they are close enough to possible that the viewer is easily caught up in the tale.In an era of special effects razzle-dazzle and movie spectaculars, I enjoyed this small film with a big heart. If you, like me, are bored with all of the formula films, give this one a chance. Just be sure to take some Windex in case you hurt yourself laughing.

m-ozfirat First of all the film is intended to be an ethnic comedy when in my view it would of worked better if it was a marital comedy with the bride being Greek that could of made the jokes especially the ones based on stereotypes more rich and intelligent and more in its context. Stereotypes work well in ethnic style comedies so long as they do not transcend in to the political as do most films about the Middle East especially in regards to Palestine in this film we hear lines such as "blood thirsty Turks" and "Is Armenia close to Greece" . The cultural elements in the film are also politically motivated "the greatest civilisation" and "our house is surrounded by the gods" how can an immigrant coming from a rural family be a classicist and secondly Modern Greece so called Hellas is only a recent construct prior to that they did not identify with antiquity but nationally saw themselves as Romanians just as how present day Egyptians see themselves as Arabs. The film is also a unilateral take on culture were by Greeks and Eastern Orthodox along with the Roman West are the same people with a belief in democracy that started in Greece which is why the wedding takes place in an orthodox Church. It would of been better if both these identities were represented in a non-politcal manner. Overall the only good thing about this film is the cast the characters are one dimensional and is poorly constructed with more emphasis in my view of a political agenda rather then a comical film an a hollywood trait that some ethnic and cultural groups are more favoured and exclusive then others.

Steve Pulaski It's intriguing to note that despite My Big Fat Greek Wedding still boasting the title of the "highest grossing romantic comedy," like most romantic comedies, the impact this left on pop culture as a whole was slight and almost unrecognizable; similar to James Cameron's Avatar, still the highest grossing film worldwide, yet a film that sparks nothing but opinions that go against what people initially thought of the film. If My Big Fat Greek Wedding doesn't speak volumes about the genre of romantic comedies, I'm not sure what does.It's not necessarily that My Big Fat Greek Wedding is forgettable, but even worse, it kind of is what it is; a one-note joke or a Saturday Night Live skit stretched out to feature-length. The result is a film that incites a few smiles, chuckles, and an interesting indie sleeper hit story, but nothing more. Couple these features with the fact that this film's ending is just about the most unsurprising and corniest ending about family, acceptance, and difference I've yet to see in film, and you have a romantic comedy that really can't measure up to its level of monetary success by proving its much different than its less-impacting counterparts.The film revolves around Fotoula "Toula" Portokalos (Nia Vardalos), a quirky Greek woman in the middle of a fierce midlife crisis. At thirty, she is unmarried and ostracized by her parents Gus and Maria (Michael Constantine and Lainie Kazan) for failing to find a man and become a "baby machine" like her older sister Athena (Stravroula Logothettis) to further give her parents purpose in their elderly years. Toula states early on in the film that the three prime expectations of Greek women are to marry a Greek boy, make Greek babies, and "feed everyone until the day she dies." Toula's parents are traditionalist Greeks in the sense that they wet guests' faces with kisses when they walk through the door, overstuff their guests with food, and, specifically Gus, try to cure every human ailment with Windex. Because of that, they seem to believe that all other people who aren't Greeks are secretly in denial of their heritage and wish they were Greeks. The family is in for a culture shock, however, when Toula meets and falls madly in love with Ian Miller (John Corbett), a handsome and kind school teacher, who just so happens to be non-Greek and lack any kind of discernible heritage, typical for many people who are fourth or fifth generation immigrants where culture is subsequently lost in the shuffle of assimilation.Regardless, the state of the family is sent into a dramatic tailspin by Toula's traditionalist parents, who can't see how this man is capable of anything without having a Greek background. The film becomes a story of Gus and Maria needing to accept their daughter's newfound beau, in addition to a story about Ian learning to accept Toula's parents for their very conservative and sometimes narcissistic view of their own heritage.The result is a film predicated off of lampooning, satirizing, and overblowing common conventions of Greek people, none of which so much as negative or harmfully stereotypical as much as they are pretty simple-minded and predictable. Having said that, the actors and actresses on hand make My Big Fat Greek Wedding the moderately enjoyable experience that it is, particularly Vardalos, who throws herself into the autobiographical tale of meeting her husband getting the respect that both her and him deserved. Before the big screen, which consisted of little else besides a $5 million budget from IFC Films and studio executives crossing their fingers that word of mouth would carry this picture, Vardalos conducted this project as a stage-play, in a manner that recalls the zealous energy exhibited by Tyler Perry to get noticed in the public eye. Assisted by a cast of spirited performers, particularly Michael Constantine, who knows how to tight-rope walk the fine line of overacting and emphatically portraying a brazen archetype of a character, Vardalos and her screenplay really cannot lose in the acting department.The problem, I suppose, with My Big Fat Greek Wedding is just how simple of a film it is. When you find out the film is largely about changing peoples' prejudices, which, to be fair, aren't really harmful in an explicit or predatory sense and more-or-less exist as the kind of impulsive small talk families create over Thanksgiving/Christmas dinner, the conflict really becomes silly at best. While this kind of friction definitely exists, there are more compelling stories to be told about a lack of acceptance in a family and this film, with its dramatic depictions that ultimately wind up conveying a silly sense of screwball comedy, get rather repetitive after a while and one is left trying to rest the weight of the film's quality on the shoulders of the performers, which isn't entirely fair for a comedy.My Big Fat Greek Wedding is the perfect "rainy Sunday" film in that it's simple enough where you could watch it over and over again and not get tired of it thanks to its generally upbeat and silly nature; a feel-good film, if you will, despite the fact that lead character is often made to feel bad. One could say it oversimplifies the everlasting hell out of Greeks and Greek culture, but circumventing to my point about this film leaving relatively no cultural footprint, I don't even think you could make such an argument. Save such for a film with an impact outside of the monetary sense.Starring: Nia Vardalos, John Corbett, Michael Constantine, Lainie Kazan, and Stravroula Logothettis. Directed by: Joel Zwick.

luvrmusic The first time I watched this movie, I liked it. Then, I started to think about it and realized that I actually don't like it. The main problem is probably me because I have issues with plots that revolve around over-bearing families being the problem in the protagonist's life. The reason why I have issues with that plot is that the family is almost never confronted by the protagonist about their over- bearing behavior. It is always the protagonist's fault for not liking her over-bearing family. To me, that's a problem. Yes, the protagonist should evolve love their family, but the family should also realize that there is a time and a place to be over-bearing. For example, when Toula and Ian where at Toula's house deciding on wedding invitations and such, Toula's sister (or her mother, I can't remember) says she made the wedding invitations, that Toula has to invite relatives she doesn't know, and her cousin Nicky walks in with her design for the bridesmaid dress. If I were Toula, I would have snapped. I would have appreciated what they were doing, but the wedding was becoming more about the family and less about Toula. That is a perfect moment when Toula should have confronted her family, or at least did it without Ian there so it is not that awkward. Another point she should have confronted her family is when her mother said they invited the whole family to meet Ian's parents. That is way too much for any person to handle in the first time meeting your daughter-in-law's family. While there is one point when Toula's father says that Ian's parents looked at them like they were from a zoo, it was in the movie for the sole purpose of Toula giving in to her family's crazy ways. It had no impact on the family as a whole and neither parents tried to meet the other parents half-way. If Toula's parents tried to compromise and Ian's parents still looked at them funny, then that line is warranted. But that didn't happen. Nothing really changed or evolved. The wedding was less about what Toula wanted and more about what her family wanted. If the movie wasn't focused on the crazy family, then I would give the movie a better rating. However, that is the point of the film and thus I give the movie 5/10.